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Stories of Identity ~ Starting September 2024
I’ll be sharing stories of challenge, change and faith in finding your own way ~ inspiring stories to help you on your journey to living your life, your way.
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Where are the Boundaries in Relationships?
Healthy boundaries allow individuals to express their needs, desires, and limits, ensuring that both parties feel valued and respected. They prevent the overstepping of personal space and protect us against emotional, physical, or psychological harm.
Communication - Speak Up
They are the limits we set to define who we are (or want to be), what is acceptable to us, and what is unacceptable to us. Communication is the tool we use to express these.
Values -What’s Actually Important to You?
When boundaries are values-aligned, it means that the limits we set in our interactions and behaviors directly reflect our core beliefs and principles.
Values-aligned boundaries are not arbitrary; they are deeply connected to what we hold dear, such as respect, honesty, kindness, or self-care.
Bend It, Shape It - How Flexibility Helps
The benefits of boundaries being flexible and adaptable are significant in helping us to foster resilience and build healthier relationships.
Clarity - Boundaries Blueprint
Clarity and defined boundaries are crucial because they allow us to establish clear expectations and limits, preventing misunderstandings and conflicts.
When boundaries are well-defined, they offer a blueprint for how we wish to be treated and how we interact with others. This clarity empowers us to protect own emotional well-being, honour our personal values, and maintain healthy relationships.
Boundaries for Mental Wealth
It’s easy to downplay the importance of boundaries in our day to day life, especially if we are under stress, or they are not something we are aware of or are used to having. Many of our innate boundaries (choice, safety, security, autonomy) are crossed as children so we learn than we don’t have this level of control, or rather, we never learn to develop or identify what we want our personal boundaries to be.
Boundaries are like bridges…
Boundaries are also limits, but these are chosen by us. They are the lines that define the limit of one person and the beginning of another, and the lines drawn even within ourselves which we do not cross in terms of attitudes, beliefs and behaviour.
